Yesterday, I buried one of my
greatest heroes, friends and brothers. The activity surrounding it was all
quiet impressive.
Three of my nephews, my husband
and I gathered at the funeral home for one last viewing of the deceased. Then
the five of us climbed into two different cars and followed the Hurst to Abraham
Lincoln’s National Cemetery, in Elwood, IL. We were met by military personnel,
a transport car and led to the ceremonial area.
As we moved to the site, my eyes
fell upon seven elderly soldiers, dressed in dark blue uniforms, white shirts, red
ties, red berets, red honor cords attached to their left shoulders, standing at
attention holding firearms and awaiting their commands; two additional
retirees, dressed in the same uniforms, stood on opposite sides of the
presentation area; one giving the commands to the seven, who stood at
attention; the other retiree, silent.
Two more soldiers stood, at equal
attention, separately from them; their dress - dark blue uniforms, dark ties,
white shirts and dark hats, with a gold cord circling the front of the cap,
just above the bib. They, too flanked
the coffin, on either side, when a female spokesperson, dressed in civilian
clothing, shivering in the chilling wind, came forth to give a canned
welcome/condolence speech and explained the procedure. She encouraged us to cover
our ears, as the 21 gun salute took place (which amounted to the seven
soldiers, firing their weapons, simultaneously, three times each upon command).
I stood silent, my eyes and camera riveted on the shooters, gritting my teeth
and fighting back the tears screaming for release with each shot. “I’ll not
allow myself to become emotional”, I reasoned. “If I do, I’ll ruin the video;
the meaning of this celebration will be lost on my lack of composure. Pull
yourself together!” I cautioned myself. So I did.
Once the firing ceased and the
command was given to halt, a lone bugler, stationed about a block away, but
still visible, blew “Taps”. The four soldiers, without weapons, stood in a
stationary salute, the entire time “Taps” was sounding; the gunners, in parade
rest. Once the “Taps” were completed, the silent retiree approached Paul, the
eldest son of my brother and gave him three fired cartridge shells in a plastic
bag, representing the ones fired on behalf of his dad. His wife is deceased.
As soon as he had resumed his
position, the two distinctively, differently dressed soldiers began the flag folding
aspect of the ceremony. Methodically and extremely meticulously, they folded
the flag into a triangle, tucked its corners and then one of them presented the
folded flag to my nephew, immediately after having received a departing salute
from his capable assistant. Kneeling, in a statuesque position before my
nephew, he expressed condolences for the family of the fallen soldier; arose
without issue, saluted and walked militarily away.
The funeral director asked if
there were any closing remarks from anyone – silence – seemed to breathe a sigh
of relief when no one came forth, because the wind was rising and he appeared
chilled; he then directed my nephews and husband to place the casket in the transport
car. Afterwards, we each went to the saluting area and retrieved the empty shells
as memorials of our own. Everything, had taken place in roughly 15 minutes.
What a life lesson! Despite the
pomp and circumstances associated with the service; it just reminded me that
all of the years spent in service to mankind, all of the sacrifices made on one’s
part for family, friends and country, can be celebrated in 15 minutes of man’s
measured time and then tucked away for the final reckoning. It certainly brings everything into
perspective, as to what is important. Therefore, let’s make a pact to put
foolishness, in our lives aside, and only concentrate on the important matters like
those things that are mentioned in Philippians 4:8, "Finally brethren,
whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are
just, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if
there be any praise, think on these things.”
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