Last night I received a
text message; “Ma, my flight is coming in tomorrow at 9:48.” I gulped in
disbelief. I wasn’t done preparing for her coming. Why, she wasn’t supposed to
arrive for two more days! I could hardly believe my text.
Then an additional text
arrived; “Hey, we’re stopping over in Albuquerque for the night, we’re about 8
hours out, see you tomorrow evening.” Both of these texts conveyed the same
idea to me: “You’ve got another long night, Virginia. What you thought you
could get done in the morning, more leisurely, must be completed tonight,
because you’ll need to leave early in the morning to meet that flight on time.
I was beside myself with
joy, and praying for another burst of energy! Not just one, but two of my three
daughters were converging upon my home on the same day! Hallelujah! Yet, woe is
me! Just when I thought I had timed it precisely, then bang! The plans were
changed. I also thought about the second coming of Christ, where we are urged
to “…be ye also ready, for in such an hour as ye think not, the Son of Man
cometh.” Matthew 24:44
These two daughters had
not been together in my home for over two years, when the eldest one was
married. Now here they were, together again with me for the holidays, I was
tickled pink to be so honored. I thought about my third daughter; she’s more of
a loner, meaning when she visits, she seems to prefer doing it alone with just
her family. I think it is because I dote over my girls and she would prefer
having it all to herself and not sharing. (These are just my thoughts, not
fact.)
For the last two weeks,
I have been diligently shopping and preparing for these ladies. Because we are
all vegan, food preparation can be exhaustive and time consuming. Therefore, as
carefully as possible, I began making and freezing food, being cautious to
remember that one is allergic to anything coconut and the other to anything
chocolate. Hence, I prepared homemade breakfast patties, a plant based protein loaf,
especial healthy biscuits with flax, cheese sauce for those distinctive dishes,
mock tofu chicken, banana nut bread and a “no chocolate”, chocolate silk pie. I
wanted to have as much food prepared ahead of time as possible, so that our
time spent together could be used in other ways. I still had to prepare zucchini
walnut patties, with extra onions for the eldest girl, and sweet potato pie for
my son-in-law; he had put in a special request.
It was extremely
exhausting, especially having to keep up with my other daily chores, my husband
who was recovering from surgery and preparing for a speaking engagement in
another city. However, God is good and
He sustains us during our most stressful times.
I have learned that it
doesn’t really matter how much painstaking time and energy you have to exert for
incoming guests, as long as it is being done for those whom you love, or even
for those who would be grateful for the privilege of being in your presence is
a sweet reward. It is a ‘refreshing weariness’ when you see the joy and exhilarated
bliss expressed by them.
Although, I could stand
a deep tissue massage, right about now, the warm embrace by my baby at the airport, and the
anticipation of another by my eldest, in a few short hours is an awesome
substitute. Happy Holidays everybody, and Merry Christmas to those who would
like to return to the old days! I pray that your days are filled with as much "refreshing weariness"as mine. LOL
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