When it comes to
interacting with children, I am quite a disciplinarian. Many children, who do
not wish to be obedient, tend to avoid close relationships with me; I’m okay
with that, because I really don’t have great patience for uncooperative,
undisciplined children.
My lack of interaction
with the children of my local church has been observed by many; however, no one
has ever confronted me about it. The children speak kindly to me, as we pass,
and on rare occasions, we will chat briefly and continue on, in our separate
directions.
That having been said,
several of the women my age, in the congregation where I attend, have been
taken aback at the warm and adoring relationship that has developed between me
and two little girls (ages 4 and 7), of a different ethnicity. Since they began attending our
congregation, they have clung to my husband and me like glue.
Just this past weekend,
on three different occasions, women in my age group, commented to me about my
relationship to the girls, what might be our possible kinship and even their
envy concerning the attention the youngest one seems to bestow upon me, quite
unashamedly.
Over the holidays, I had
invited them, along with their parent and grandparent to our home for a family
night gathering, which originally was only supposed to be for our daughters,
their spouses and our grandchildren. Theirs was the only attendance that was
not tied by blood kinship on either side of the family. We had a very good
time. At the end of the evening, I gave both of the girls’ aprons and
instructions for those aprons. They were to bring them back to my house, at a
set time and just the three of us would bake cookies together.
Finally, cookie day
arrived – it was today. Their father brought them down, right on time. Then he
began to chat with me (which normally would be okay), but after a while, when
the girls began to get that bored look, I kindly explained to him that he and
my husband would have to hang out together today, this was the girls’ time and
we had work to do. He understood and immediately, he and my husband left the
premises.
The plan was that the
girls and I would make the cookies, then we would watch video clips as they
baked and return home with them for supper. Of course, we would carry the
cookies for dessert.
Their grandmother, who
speaks very little English, had made a delicious dinner for us. So we ate and
drank together; the girls shared with me their personal picture albums that
centered on their birth experiences, their toddler years and the time they had
spent with their now deceased mother. We had a lovely evening together.
As I sit here
reminiscing about the beauty of the day, I am reminded of how awe-filled the
language of love truly is. Despite the age differences; despite the ethnic
differences; despite the language differences, we all communicated beautifully
and thoughtfully together. There were no
un-pleasantries; no misunderstandings; no ill-will of any kind. In a world,
where racial differences are still so prominent, we were able to completely
lose sight of that difference and all others of any kind. Again, I am reminded that we could do it
because we all spoke the same spiritual language – the language of love.
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